Spanish term. Trust your instincts. George, dont chop any parts off. OP, regardless of what might be going on, the bottom line is you deserve better treatment than this. A lot of men find that Mama is a better alternative to nicknames like Baby, Babe, or Sweetie. Me and my boyfriend have been together for two years, I've never met his BM in person but she knows of me. Both of my kids have gone through the same as yours, and I cemented the fact that my name was not "Mommy" by jokingly saying, "I-AIN'T-CHE-MAMA!" He doesn't care about upsetting YOU, but God forbid SHE ever gets upset. But for some reason after everything we've been through I still love her! We were in an 18yr relationship which eventually ended last year. If she asks you to stay around a little bit longer, then it is evident that your child's mother still loves you. No I'm not one of those crazy baby mamas because I don't get strung along lol. It's not his wife it's him he's letting it happen ( he's an a**hole), any guy that leaves his family is dirt! Anyway fwd now, I told him is okay if you are going to want things this way is okay no issues with me. Why you still having sex with him and he's with someone else? I thought we could come to a mutual agreement for the child. "I know most people will always "love"/care for their child's parent after the relationship is over, and will always have that bond between them", Im the reason my baby momma ex fianc didnt work out. Then he knocked 2 women up: one didn't keep the baby; the other said if he'd be there to help her she'd keep the baby (he forwarded the messages to me including the pic of the pregnancy test she text him). But to sum it all up. I have never met his baby mama. I don't think he going to give up is child for you as no man will do that. I think it probably has to do with me being a very old fashioned family oriented man, I would love nothing more than to see our family put back together and actually work out. What can I do to fix it ? We had ALOT of attraction and chemistry, but absolutely no compatability. He should tell her to not call so late at night unless it's an emergency. Said my mind's gone half crazy (Yeah) 'cause I can't leave you alone (And I just don't know) And I'm wonderin' if it's worth me holdin' on (I said I just don't know what to do now . @mossgard. Wasn't really my choice it ended but there was a lot of history there and we both made mistakes. She's expected to be a nun. Why don't you upgrade to a nice stable upper class life? He wants to move on and wants me too but I can't I love him so deeply. He has his ex or is it his ex. So here's my situation and question I need a mans perspective. I told him if you have a comment or concern or question about our son send me an email otherwise do not co tact me. We and our partners use data for Personalised ads and content, ad and content measurement, audience insights and product development. Hearts and Lattes. In my situation I don't per se love my child's father but I respect him as her father, He has a girlfriend now that has really helped him mature their relationship is really good, I actually like her more than him. Sounds messed up to say but I wouldn't date someone with a child. Meaning we did not concentrate on ourselves but always put them first. It was a hot mess but I made sure he heard my take on all this because he barely spend s time with his kids and I dont nag him about it kids will learn one way or the other who their parent is down the line but Im just so fed up I dont know if all this has to do with the stupidness that happen because if it does its so ridicuous all because hes married. Lots of mixed emotions. What does it mean a man call me BABY MAMA? The truth is, there is no way to ever truly know the heart of a man. Cut your losses now. Never ever mate a ex is a ex and that's where they belong I look forward to meeting my new fresh man and new future. Xper 5 Age: 27. I have been playing both roles as mother and father for the past 16 years taking the responsibility financially, physically, and emotionally. She said, "He'll marry him a quiet girl who doesn't give him problems." The fiance found out about it, because the OW was very confident and wouldn't disappear. If he did call you mama because he is attracted to you then it would be likely that he would show signs of attraction in his body language and behavior which could include: Mirroring your own body language. If he was a guy that you hadnt met before then it would be more likely that he was either showing attraction to you or that he naturally says it to women. Sometimes baby mamas have tricks up their sleeves. My baby momma got this; she do that; she a teacher; she real smart; she gotta big ass house." Its a common question; What does it mean if my boyfriend calls me his baby mama?. Plus I learnt from him and his family that his ex treated him like sh*t. Well, I have a unique situation. I wish I was smart enough to leave when I could without having any drama or genetic attachments. Meeting his family doesn't mean anything. The same situation I was in She believed every lie he told her. She stayed in Honduras, whilst he set up a home for her and the baby. patito. Fortunately for me, he was someone who told her not to bother him unless it has to do with the kids and it was urgent. LOL.that story was such a pity seeking blob of bullsh*t. Nice try. No need to take it personally. I always act like I don't hear him. Lmao ok that makes sense. He even had me in his phone as "babymomma". If you treat a guy like hes a piece of shit hes going to act like one. Ive told him so many times i was okay with us not being together and just to be my sons father. 1. Is this for real?" Ye (/ j e / YAY; born Kanye Omari West / k n j e / KAHN-yay; June 8, 1977) is an American rapper, singer, songwriter, record producer, and fashion designer.. Born in Atlanta and raised in Chicago, West gained recognition as a producer for Roc-A-Fella Records in the early 2000s, producing singles for several artists and developing the "chipmunk soul" sampling style. I don't know if you are talking to me but I didn't say anything that wasn't true. If you want to learn more about body language, a book I would recommend would be The Definitive Book of Body Language (on Amazon). He was abusive during my pregnancy. I hate it. They probably do still have soemthing going on. She is constantly sending texts to him about his baby and her personal business. Please contact your hosting provider to ensure that an up-to-date and valid SSL certificate issued by a Certificate Authority is configured for this domain name on the origin server. Between the two of them they are always arguing or in some fight every few days. **** that. He never wants to communicate. For me, yes. My question why does my ex insist on having sex with me if he is so happy with his new girlfriend. Been loyal to him since day one and the attraction for me is still there . Check Yourself. I jst never had a woman that I bonded with like that!! Just like your boyfriend shouldn't be hanging out with his baby mama, she also needs to respect the fact that he's in a new relationship. When a man truly trusts you and shares his heart with you, it is a sign he likes you romantically. ), As they say in church, he needs to get his house in order. He's complaining about you to her, and she can't respect you because she knows your secrets and fears. More often than.not, people who share a child but aren't together anymore, they hate each other, or one hates the other more. Whether it be positive or negative feelings Damn.thats hurtful but.the truth my son father left me pregnant to be with his ex girlfriend who was also pregnant she lost her baby I had mine now they engaged and I let my son go to spend weekends with his dad now my son father just try. The best way to handle a situation involving a child's life and the mum's is to talk to your man about it. Oct 29, 2013 at 11:36 AM. Its hard to say for sure without asking, but I know for a fact some guys will say it as a way to test the waters! I have a kid but my kid is raised very well and very well behaved. freckles. I have talked to other girls trying to find something new in hopes to get over her. But it's weird, when he calls me by my name, I think he's mad at me LOL. The thought of my daughter being parented by another man rips me apart inside and its always been very hard for me to cope with. 9. Most of the time when a guy calls you Mama it is coming from a romantic place. cuz u know u have to deal with the drama that his baby mama will cuz. But there are some that do get over the relationship and the love. Women have been known to use children against their Ex, so I wouldn't totally rule that out, but his story about buying her a place doesn't add up. I still wanna be with her. For others, it's a deep hatred or a lasting love. He ate up all the soap. Does she check her kids when they disrespect you or anyone else? So you have no right to judge them on that. He did! My boyfriend and I've been together for a year now, I dnt have any problem with him having kids. Its essential that the boyfriend, who is in the center of this situation, make it clear to his childs mother what is appropriate, that hes in a committed relationship with you, and that he should only be contacted when it has to do with the child they share. As far as love goes I love him to the degree that my daughter loves him and he's important to her so since I love her I care about him. Should i be worried? Tell his baby mama. Why would he call me sis? Boyfriend said another woman's name. Its been about 48 hours. AskMen, Become a Better Man, Big Shiny Things, Mantics and guyQ are among the federally She even visits his house when he is not there and stays over with his sister saying its too late for her to go home. We have kids here people. when out daughter was one he left to live in Iowa for almost a year and he got a girlfriend for months at a time he wouldn't even ask about her. 2023 ZIFF DAVIS CANADA, INC. ALL RIGHTS RESERVED. Fast forward, this dude has a lot of issues, and he done had woman after woman since knowing him. I have not a drop of ANY type of feelings for him! For some, yes, maybe they didn't want the relationship to end and the break wasn't their choice. Well she sure did drop the tea , I end up asking him , and he never denied it , but he never said anything either. Is okay so recently he told the kids he would take them to the movies but he never asked the kids what type of movie they wanted to see he bought the tickets and our kids paid no mind to the fact that they didnt know what movie they were going to see until they got to the theatre so when they get there he has a fit because his wife his wifes kids who are his step kids they dont have kids of their own made decision to watch a movie that they all agree on I guess while our kids whom he made plans with were not in on this movie decision making. I did it again. Hes Making It Clear He Wants Children with You, Its His Way of Saying Hes Committed to You. No, you got him temporarily, when he feels like it. Why would he buy his ex an apartment? When considering what his body language is telling you it is important to look for a number of different signs in his body language. But because my daughters health depends on her mother I'm still a slave to the mom. If they aren't married, it's possible he brought her and the child here with the intention to marry her. We and our partners use cookies to Store and/or access information on a device. If I were you, I'd just block him and get on with your life, although I can fully understand your desire to know the truth. We add new porn videos hourly. This is especially true in the sense that your co-parent, if not on good terms with you,and in some cases, still in love with you, could be a major impediment to future relationships. Jealousy is normal: This other woman was a big part of your man's life at one point, and the fact that they share a child is a big deal. And, if you dont like him using it as your pet name, you should also speak up and say something and Im sure hell stop. Question similar to this, my partner and I have been together for over a year, I fit the role of step father for her daughter (clothe, food, bills, school runs, fun stuff etc.). I'm still in love with my kids mom. The female who he was living with , they were together at a point and he started to cheat on her with different women. He grew up a little bit and I grew some self-respect because I know that I deserve to be treated with nothing less. But most of the time we are healthy. Of course she thinks he was single and I made the mistake of contacting her after I found out about his cheating but naturally she believes him. u know the situation n if u c u can't handle this then move on. The person who posted on here earlier this year. If not dump him now. If that is the case, men will use other cuter terms rather than sticking with the clichd ones." "It is my habit to call girls babe. Many said no because the mancomes as a packaged deal with childandpossible drama with the childs mother. Hey everyone I am confused and I like for someone guy or Girl to give me feedback please I will try to be brief but it will be hard. If he also calls other women mama and he shows the same body language around them as he does around you then it would be less likely that he was showing attraction to you and more likely that he naturally says it to women. To try to sum up what could be a culmination of mixed emotions may be impossible but you have to build that bridge to get across. Knowing someday I wanted kids and stormed out of my house me pretty much begging her to calm down bottom line is a year on I'm still hurt and still angry, when I left I left her everything to protect her and still got it all thrown back at me, she plays the victim so well though. Move on.. GET AWAY FROM THIS GUY! Because your over your baby mama, that's why you don't talk about hercorrect? No other girl would do the same with him. After awhile the interactions became flirty. Your email address will not be published. Six years later he met me and now we are married . Answer (1 of 5): I would get rid of this guy if I were you,it sounds like he wants to get you pregnant and then split. Usually it is a term of endearment for guys that go out a lot and see beautiful women, I imagine a Latino man says it maybe but probably not a white guy. Well when your boyfriend calls you "baby girl" it is just basically a pet name. To view the purposes they believe they have legitimate interest for, or to object to this data processing use the vendor list link below. Body Language Central IS A PARTICIPANT IN THE AMAZON SERVICES LLC ASSOCIATES PROGRAM. Strangely enough, I think it's easier for women to get over the father of their kids than for men to get over a babymama. He's the one to always initiate, so I don't even feel bad. If you have been dating him for a while then the reason that he calls you mama could be that he thinks that you are his girlfriend. Lots of mixed emotions. i ahte when they text late at night or just text when its not about the kid. Now he and I dont even speak not even related to the kids he speaks to me by calling our kids phone he blocked me from all communication to him he told me I am sorry for leading you on when he said this I was mad Because he and I had nothing going on. Hell NO! ~Signs to tell he still loves his baby momma ~. If you see him often and youre trying to understand the way that he feels about you then it would be helpful to compare the way that he interacts with you with the way that he interacts with others. If he has the resources to buy her an apartment he certainly has the resources to put her up in hotel for awhile. I didn't see you mentioning that. There seems to be this attitude of "men have needswhat do you expectfor him to be a monk for a year." Either way, its on him to really clean the situation up, as he does have to have contact with this woman to be able to have a solid relationship with his child. Is It a Good Sign that Your Boyfriend Is Committed to You? I had just had a baby, so with the follow up appointments, we knew nothing was wrong with me, so he had to confess he crept around. Then tax payers like us have fit the bill for all their roach babies that they push out every year! Additional troubleshooting information here. When I first met him he had a daughter , and was living with a female other than his daughters mother. I know for certain that my ex tells the whole damn planet that I'm insane and always looking for conflict, nah-ah, not quite the full story. But it was five years of hell. But he doesnt know his boundaries. If I'd wanted kids I would have had my own. She's been beating him for something like 8 years now. I don't know what to do, I feel lonely. Boyfriend talks about his baby mama EVERY DAY. Please contact your hosting provider to ensure that an up-to-date and valid SSL certificate issued by a Certificate Authority is configured for this domain name on the origin server. The term was first used in the early 1900s and its popular use is rooted in the work of theorists and child development researchers such as Sigmund Freud and . For me, I don't think my boyfriend is "in love" with the mother of his children but he does have love for her and care for her for the simple fact she's the mother of his two kids. I had a miscarriage shortly after that. You hit it on the nail. My boyfriend cheated on me with his baby mama and now she is pregnant but I still love him HELP!! It would be particularly likely that he would get anxious when youre with other men, get defensive when other men are around, make plans based on yours, point his feet at you and have dilated pupils when he is with you. Been with my guy for two years and still never met his BM. Why is he spending all of his free time with his ex and ignoring you? We broke up 3 months ago our son is 8 months and I caught him in our bed with another woman only days after we broke up. Females would be like, "You the one?" This is the beginning of her trying to make the relationship hell if he doesn't put a stop to it now it will continue to happen. Just get out of this mess! amateur, big ass, big cock, big tits, ass. This could indicate an expired SSL certificate or a certificate that does not include the requested domain name. The father of my child knew I wasn't on birth control.. (which I'm not saying it's all his fault it does take two to tango) anyways I found out after I had our daughter by his family members that he had purposely gotten me pregnant so I wouldn't go back to an ex. Why you think I'm answering his phone?" U have to know the back atory in order to understand the emotion behind people and their relationships with the child's other parent. I can say for sure that I will always love my two kids mother. I don't need problems. My boyfriend has now told me that I cant text him or call him after 7(after work) because he doesn't want the baby mama to know that he has a girlfriend because he says she could take the child and move somewhere else with out telling him. My bd and I were engaged before I got pregnant. Who knows what'll happen." He is lying to you. Smh.. all I see is worthless woman thinking she's it..lol. Why do u think he's doing this family thing all of a sudden. The love of your life is still sleeping with his Baby Mama. If he only shows one body language sign of attraction in his body language then it would be difficult to accurately conclude that he is attracted to you because he might be showing it for many different reasons. He says he loves her now because they are having a child together and he can't let his child to be in a broken home. He's done something disrespectful to her. I'm all ears, but until this day, he stalks me alittle and still calls. The reason that he called you mama might be that he naturally says it to women when talking to them. If you are successful and dont let u or I get in the way of a rational conclusion than you will be just fine. Or just something someone might say to any girl Cus of the mommy jokes going around. Its his way of saying hes committed to you. LMAO. Log in to reply. She starts asking for more time with you. You sound like you have other problems that need your attention. I don't need him financially . Two months ago, he called finally saying he wanted me to meet someone. cuz u know u have to deal with the drama that his baby mama will cuz. I was on and off with my sons mother for years after he was born. You arent wrong in feeling that, a person can only take so much, and patient and understanding for so long before someone pushes too far. Calling a girlfriend "mom" may signify one of three things: an affection, as a praise that you make him feel good; an insult, he is telling you that you are treating him like a mother hen; or a habit, he grew up around others who did it, so he believes it's a good thing. He is manipulating you. I actually do applications for him just because I know he needs one . u know the situation n if u c u can . Any advice or comments? The house is 5 minutes from where he lives with his mom and in the same neighborhood as his sister. Doesn't mean they are not over their ex. When you're dating a guy and he's not using your real name and calling you baby, instead, it means he loves you. If he is seriously worried that she will take his child away, he needs to consult an attorney about his paternal rightsnot bow down to her and pretend you don't exist. He called too and they were clearly fighting in the background. By entering this site you declare help? If your boyfriend is talking to his baby mama everyday, there is the obvious concern that he's still involved with her in some way. Sorry, but I would not tolerate this. So, do I have "drama" - yup! The SSL certificate presented by the server did not pass validation. You should be ashamed of yourself. They like ages between 21-25. To have my daughter call my name and know that I'm only a few rooms away. The thing is I don't want his money and I know he needs to be held accountable but honestly if he doesn't want part of his daughter life he can go. Trust, If you truly love this dude then talk to your bd in private about the kids Men are very territorial and regardless if a woman has a bd or not they dont like other men talking to their women. Absolutely NOT! That would be a dealbreaker for me. Nope, I can't stand my ex-husband lol..I just let him talk to his girls and that's about it..I could careless about him. Everyone has made bad choices at some times in their lives, but the consequences of some bad choices are much more serious and far-reaching than the consequences of other bad choices. He has some issues with him, Did u put him on child support ? If this is the case, then its a good thing! Well heres my story me and my kids dad had been together since i was 16 and he was 19 at the time he had a baby on the way me n baby mama went back n forth for a while I'm older and knw exactly why we went back n forth considering I had children of my own with him 4 years later into our relationship well after I first child we were perfect then he got shot I nursed him back to health then I got pregnant again after the second baby we never had time to rekindle our love cuz I was too busy working n being a mom our kids are 4 and going on 3 we have been broken up for 2 years now messing around on n off well a girl he started working with before we ended happens to be his girlfriend now they been together going on two years she swears they did nothing while we were together I find it hard to believe tho he's putting her through so much and me because he wont just let me go I wasted 7 years of my life with him n finally he's ready to move all the way on with her because she will give him whatever he desires even if loosing self respect such as prostitution I can't make this up but we tried to get back together pointless of times bit it never works then he winds back up over there with her well he's on my blocklist now for hurting my feelings for the last time saying hes just gona marry her so just say **** him because hes moved out of town now to try to get his life together so shes won't now as she thinks can't help but wonder if this is a repeat from us in the beginning expect I dont think I ever got a fair shot at this love thing now i dont know what love really is anymore and I'm tired of it hurting me idk if it hurta him as bad or if how could he really love her but just wanted his family back smh its so frustrating that I cry sometimes because i been let him go n was moving on n then he knows how to get me back n then doesnt want me when i want him but wants me when I dont want him its just crazy meanwhile I can't believe i have to find a man to love me n my kids as his whole he think he has it all figured out smh I will never understand how logic but she ca. Its certainly a term of endearment then. Stop blaming the man for you being too stupid to protect yourself. And I just looked him like you can't be serious ? Each of the different reasons why a guy might call a woman mama will likely come with a number of clues in his body language. Wake up he's married with kids PERIOD! Sad but true! I still dealt with him knowing this , I also knew the start of our relationship was nothing serious , and it takes time for things to go or get serious. She is doing it to make her think that something is going on between them, and to try to make her jealous. So that happend a month later he FaceTimes me I pick up he says he just wanted to see me. Just because that's the kind of person he is. Really I feel sorry for the current and future women in my life, because I would drop them in a heartbeat to go back and try to make things work. Don't have kids unless your absolutely sure about your partner, and have had years to learn and understand them, otherwise theres a good chance your going to live a long life of unfulfilled mediocrity. If he called you mama in front of people then it would either be the case that he naturally says it or that he was showing more overt attraction for you. If this term is completely new to you and youre wondering what he means exactly, there are three possible reasons why hes calling you his baby mama: Lets take a closer look at these and how you might want to respond: Some guys use the term baby mama as part of their vocabulary and its totally normal to them while it might be totally foreign to you! Ask for FREE. I have seen this many times when I was dating. Why do you tolerate this? Yes, if she finds out he's cheating, she will separate and go elsewhere (even though according to him, she's only staying with him because she had nowhere else to gosee any inconsistency in his story there???). Long story short I have done everything in my power to get this woman back! The reason that he wanted to see your reaction is likely to be because he is attracted to you but he isnt sure if youre attracted to him. Oh and women, feel free also to give your advice/opinion. Keep reading to find out what he can do to stop the drama and how you can stand by his side in support and love. That's because in order to have a healthy relationship with his mom, your guy has to have some boundaries. Long story short I end up coming home Monday , and something tells me to go on Facebook and her page. And I loved him. When trying to understand why he called you mama it would be helpful to consider the timing and location that he said it in. I wasn't a great boyfriend for 6 yrs and then we had a child. 2. If he did call you mama because he is attracted to you then it would be likely that he would show signs of attraction in his body language and behavior which could include: There are more signs of attraction that a guy might show you that get talked about, in an ebook, here. There are not enough good men as it is. He's hung up and something and not talking to you about it. duckling. If the ex is the mother or father of their child, they will need to be in contact. Today we talk to two women to hear about their crazy baby mama stories -- women who have been manipulated, schemed, and plotted against simply .
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